Control Is Not Love

He cannot look at your mobile without your permission. He can’t tell you that you don’t leave the house that way. He cannot demand that you tell him where you are. He can’t blackmail you into staying.

It cannot restrict your freedom.

He cannot judge your sympathy with others.

It cannot censor your opinions.

It cannot pretend to be the only thing in your life.

It cannot create a doubt to hold you back.

He cannot threaten you.

He cannot manipulate you into thinking you are inferior.

It cannot isolate you from the world.

It cannot leave you badly in front of the rest.

It can’t control you.

And if it does.

If he tells you that he loves you a lot and that is why he is jealous.

Is not true.

The person who is jealous thinks only of himself.

All you want is to continue to maintain what makes you feel good.

You don’t put yourself in the other person’s shoes.

That is why jealousy is not a symptom of great love.

They are a sign of great insecurity.

Because jealousy shows no concern.

It’s not that he cares more.

It is that he thinks you belong to him.

You think that your body and your mind are his.

That someone can take them away.

But no one can take anyone from us because no one belongs to us.

No one can possess us because we are not things.

Jealousy is tremendously disappointing.

Because they presuppose a distrust.

And love is above all trust.

Only with her can you grow in company.

So if someone prefers you unhappy but by their side.

Go away.

Do not be late.

In those places.

In which you cannot grow.